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Obvs you’re going to talk to your besties about it, but try to refrain from buying an ad on Facebook.
The greater lesbian community does not need to know who you are dating or what you did on your date.
Ask them to do a specific activity at a specific time and place.
Preferably an activity that is reflective of something most people enjoy (i.e good food) or something that they have mentioned enjoying in conversation.
And remember, even after you’ve “got her,” you have to keep her.
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